“I’m sick of being myself.” It can hit you at any time, but usually comes after a period of repeated failures to change.  If you’ve been stuck in a rut for a while and have tried again and again to make changes and gotten nowhere, this phrase or one very similar to it is going to come for you. It’s going to sneak up on you.  The first thought in the morning. When you look in the mirror. When you wake up hungover or collapse into your bed one night after a frustrating day of accomplishing nothing or realizing that you are living a lie rather than a life that…